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Made by hand in Frome, Somerset

Petal & Pearl
Two hands working an emery stick along the edge of a silver band.

Practical

Care and sizing

Everything here is specific to silver and pearl rather than generic. Follow it and a piece from this bench will outlive the person who bought it.

Care & sizing

The things I get asked most.

Written out properly so you do not have to email and wait two days for an answer you needed this evening.

Measuring a ring at home

  1. Cut a strip of paper about 5mm wide. Not string — string stretches and you will come out a size too big.
  2. Wrap it round the base of the finger, snug but able to turn.
  3. Push it over the knuckle before you mark it. If it will not go over, the knuckle is the size you need, not the finger.
  4. Mark where it overlaps, lay it flat, and measure to the mark in millimetres.
  5. Find that number below.
UK sizes, inside circumference
SizeCircumference
L51.9 mm
M53.1 mm
N54.4 mm
O55.7 mm
P57.0 mm
Q58.3 mm
R59.5 mm

Measure at the end of the day with warm hands — fingers are meaningfully smaller first thing and in January. A wide band needs half a size up on the same finger, because there is more of it touching you.

First resize on anything I made is free within a year. After that it is £25, and I will not resize a bezel-set ring by more than two sizes without remaking the shank — the setting distorts and the stone works loose.

Looking after silver

Tarnish is not dirt. It is silver reacting with sulphur in the air, and the fastest cure is wearing the thing — skin keeps it bright. A piece that lives in a drawer will always look worse than one that lives on you.

  • Use an impregnated polishing cloth. Two minutes, no water. That is the whole method for 95% of pieces.
  • Not toothpaste. It is abrasive enough to leave a haze of fine scratches that a cloth cannot then remove.
  • Never silver dip on an oxidised piece. It strips the deliberate black out of stamping and texture in about four seconds and it does not come back without a torch.
  • Take it off for swimming. Chlorine attacks the copper in sterling, and the sea will find any join that is not quite right.
  • Store it dry and separately. The pouch it came in, in a drawer. Not the bathroom, not a bowl on the windowsill with everything else scratching it.

Looking after pearls

Freshwater pearls are nacre — layers of calcium carbonate laid down by a mussel. That makes them softer than any stone on this page and easily damaged by things that would not touch silver.

  • On last, off first. Perfume, hairspray and suncream all etch the surface. Get dressed, then put the pearls on.
  • Never an ultrasonic cleaner. It will shake the nacre off the bead and there is no repair. Jewellers do this to people's pearls by accident every week.
  • Never silver dip. It dissolves nacre outright. If a piece is pearl and silver together, use a cloth on the metal and keep the liquid away from it.
  • Wipe with a soft damp cloth after wearing, then let it dry flat before it goes away.
  • Restring anything knotted every couple of years if you wear it weekly. Silk stretches and greys, and it always breaks somewhere inconvenient. I restring for £45 including the silk.

Anything not covered here — ask me. I would rather answer than have you guess with something that cannot be undone.

Six emails a week

What people actually ask

If your question is here, the answer is here — no need to write in unless you want to.

It has gone black in the box

That is tarnish — silver sulphide, from sulphur in the air. It forms fastest where air sits still, which is why a piece worn weekly stays bright and a piece in a drawer does not. A polishing cloth takes it off in a minute.

There is a green mark on my finger

Harmless, and it is usually not the ring. Copper in the alloy reacts with acid on your skin, and hand cream, chlorine and sweat all speed it up. It washes off. If it bothers you, take the ring off before the pool.

The stone moves when I tap it

Stop wearing it today and send it back. A stone that rattles is a stone about to be on a pavement. Tightening is £22 to £60 depending on the setting, and it is a great deal cheaper than replacing a stone.

The black in the lettering is wearing off

Expected. Oxidisation is a surface, not a dye — it wears back to silver over a year or two. Send it in and she will re-blacken it: free on anything she made, £15 otherwise.

My pearls have gone dull

Nacre is porous and it has absorbed something — perfume, hairspray, or skin oil. Wipe with a barely damp cloth and dry it properly. Never use a silver dip: it strips nacre and there is no repairing that.

It does not fit any more

Fingers change with heat, salt, pregnancy and age, and a ring that fits in February can be tight in July. Resizing is £28 in silver. If it is from this bench and it is the first year, it is free.

Stone by stone

What will damage each one

Hardness is only half the story — the other half is what a stone reacts to. Both are on every stone page.

All eight stones

Freshwater pearlMohs 2.5 – 4
Anything acidic, and that includes perfume, hairspray, hand sanitiser and sweat left on overnight. A silver dip will strip the nacre outright and there is no repairing it.
AmethystMohs 7
Sunlight, slowly. Amethyst fades — a ring worn every summer for ten years will be paler than the day it was set. Keep it out of a sunny window when you are not wearing it.
MoonstoneMohs 6 – 6.5
Knocks. Feldspar cleaves — it splits along a plane rather than chipping at a corner — so one hard hit on a doorframe can take a piece off cleanly.
GarnetMohs 7 – 7.5
Very little, in honesty. Thermal shock if you take it from hot water to cold, and that is about it.
AquamarineMohs 7.5 – 8
Almost nothing in normal wear. Ultrasonic cleaners if the stone has inclusions.
LabradoriteMohs 6 – 6.5
Knocks, like all feldspar, and it cleaves in two directions. I will set it in a ring if you ask, and I will tell you it is a ring for good days rather than for gardening.
OpalMohs 5.5 – 6.5
Dry heat, sudden temperature change, and any hard knock. Never leave one on a sunny windowsill and never put it in an ultrasonic cleaner.
SapphireMohs 9
Practically nothing. It will scratch every other stone in this list.

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